About Her

I am Kotsengkuba and this is NOT my home page.

As the header implies, this is my wife’s personal blog which is so entitled Memoirs of the Antipatika. From henceforth, topics on family, parenting and everything in between will be seen within the fortress of this site.

Though the name Antipatika should be nothing to be intimidated of, the author of this blog carries the strongest personalities of a female Scorpio.

She’s emotional who takes it to the limits. In fact she needs an overkill to feel really alive. She wants approval, though she strongly denies. She gives 100 per cent of herself to those she love, and expect the same, if not more, in return. There are definitely no half measures in her attitude to love.

She is demanding of herself and others, but when she gives her heart to someone she’s very loyal. She is committed to anything she do, including relationships — she absolutely adore the idea of love. It’s a challenge that excites you.

Chinky, as known in the family for her Chinese eyes, is the first born in the family of three girls. In addition to this royalty, she’s the first grand child of the Contreras clan in Cavite. A subject of envy among the rest of the clan, but something she would rather not have.

Among her friends, she is known as Hersy, coined from a chocolate which her mother fancied during her conception.

She is Mahal as a wife and Mommy as a mother. The Antipatika is a Stay at Home Mom (SAHM) as I required but due to the looming economy, she will have to continue her career in Mass Communication sooner or later. I believe a modern woman should not be deprived of a career so then I will be giving myself my turn to be a Stay at Home Dad (SAHD).